frizz_ease ([info]frizz_ease) wrote,
@ 2008-05-03 21:17:00
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My kids...
Don't you just want to protect your children forever?  Tonight Jason had a dose of reality.  He went to a birthday party.  He thought he lost one of his video games and was searching the house looking for it.  When he went upstairs to look for it, one of the boys said, "okay let's take a vote, who thinking Jason is a baby and who thinks he is just gay."  All the boys laughed.  Dylan (his older brother)  over heard.  He told Jason what they said and then called us to pick them up.  Dylan said, "nobody treats my brother like that."  Jason was so upset, he was crying.  He couldn't figure out why the kids would treat him that way.  I listed his friends and asked him if any of them would treat him that way, and he said "none of my friends would ever do that to me."  I told him the only people you can ever count on in life are your friends and the rest are a crap shoot.  But he really doesn't get it...he keeps saying, "I would never treat ANYONE  like that." 

My boys are typical brothers.  They don't always get along.  Jason is forever complaining that he HATES being the youngest!

When we got the boys home, Dylan turned to Jason and said, "I'm sorry about what happened to you tonight, and if you need anything just tell me"  I was in tears.  Jason told me, that for the first time in his life, he was glad he was the youngest because he knew he would always have Dylan to protect him. *deep sigh*


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[info]tete6871
2008-05-04 01:44 am UTC (link)
I don't have children (yet) but feel the same way about my nieces. Kenz, who is like Jason in thinking that people should treat others how they would like to be treated, was accused of tripping someone at school! I asked who this person is, where do they live, what do their parents look like. some people think this grows character having to go through these things but I think that's crap...I think its just unnecessary heartache!

I'm glad your boys have each other and you and render! You are an outlier as family units go, but should be the norm!

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[info]frizz_ease
2008-05-04 01:55 am UTC (link)
I could hear other parents telling me that children need to "suck it up" and "hey that's the real world." But I wish I had the balls at their age and even now, to say, "oh no, nobody treats me that way...bye bye."

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[info]tete6871
2008-05-04 02:02 am UTC (link)
this younger couple I know tells their song "shake it off" I cringe inside! We live in utopia of our minds don't we?

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[info]frizz_ease
2008-05-04 02:09 am UTC (link)
We live in utopia of our minds don't we?

Yup! And I like it here!

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[info]tete6871
2008-05-04 02:15 am UTC (link)
me too! I'm not leaving anytime soon! I don't think they have confetti in the real world!

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[info]laurajg
2008-05-04 02:29 am UTC (link)
Tell Jason they only make fun of the cool kids they're jealous of.

Man.. that sucks. Dylan handled it great. Give 'em both high fives from all of us..

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[info]frizz_ease
2008-05-04 04:27 pm UTC (link)
Render had to really clue me in about how boys like to take down other boys when in a group setting and the classic way to do this is by calling other boys "gay." I had no clue. Girls just crush each other with social isolation.

Protective siblings rule!!!!

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[info]brgk44
2008-05-05 12:30 pm UTC (link)
*sigh* I just learned about this, too; a friend is dealing with her 4th grade son being called "gay" by his classmates. Nice, huh?

My heart broke for your boys when I read your post. *hug*

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